From
Yunhaier:
Good day everyone,
Aunt Agony has always been an online domain for a vampire like me
to lurk. A good six years in fact, but never have I seen how
wretched it has become due to the recent hype and saga. I was asked
to step up and take measures to clean up the mess and this will be
my opening speech, addressing to everyone.
Perhaps virtual reality seemed too much like a reality for some;
heated emotions were 'displayed' and debates went on
incessantly.
Nobody is pristinely good, totally devoid of any misdeed or
mistakes. The difference is just that our misconduct is not exposed
for public judgement because surely if that were to happen, every
single one of us would be negatively perceived, just like anyone
else who did something socially unacceptable and got judged by
it.
I remember telling some forumers who PMed me, not to picture that I
am 'good person' because you never know who you are dealing with in
this vast online world. Yunhaier could be a serial killer...
seriously... you will never know. And sometimes, things are better
to be kept online than to bring it offline... into reality.
And yes yes, Vampires are equally evil. 
***
Firstly, I will address the definition of a MOD:
A moderator's
task is merely to moderate.
However, take note that everyone is accountable for their own
advice/s and everything else pertaining to their advice/s. MOD
included.
Secondly, advice seeker, you are warned against revealing your
personal identity and contact numbers to anybody - that includes
me. Trust nobody
with your OFFLINE identity.
Next, I will pen down my code of conduct (which I have abided them
since my first appearence in AA). Some of you knows about this
already because I said in private conversation, but well, here's
it:
i) When it comes to doing Aunt Agony, I do not ask for your contact
numbers/MSN/etc. The most I will only ask is your Birth Details
(because there are times I am interested to analysis you as a
person, since I do not know you real life and that's the closest
tool I know to 'know' someone without knowing them in reality. Of
course, if you think that I am going to cast spell at you... then I
respect your decision for not revealing them too).
ii) My PMs are completely private. I do not share the content with
anyone, much less other forumers.
iii) I know some of you who PMed me are clones. Rest assured that I
won't bother finding out your real identity, since you have
preferred to appear to me this way.
iv) I have told FireIce, even as your MOD, I have given her the
full authority and permission to remove me if things go astray with
my dealings. Jason will probably publish this for all to see, so I
am including this as part of my opening speech to all.
So that it is.
I welcome everyone to post in Aunt Agony, especially if you are
contributing constructively to the topics here. No hard feelings to
those who have left here for whatever reasons because you are
always free to pop by occasionally. This is my promise to you - AA
is open for all who wants to contribute.
Although I don't have much spare time to hang around the forum as
much as I would love to, but still, I will do whatever I can to
keep things in order.
Lastly and the most important point I would like to say:
Being a MOD
doesn't affect my thoughts or the way I construct my advice/s and
also being a MOD doesn't mean that my advice are 'better' than
others. A MOD is merely to upkeep the forum. Shed that title,
Yunhaier is still Yunhaier.
I can't run the show by myself you know. 
Keep an open mind my friends! Let's make this forum a better place
for all to use.
With that, I shall end my speech.
Cheers
